Dear Abby: I have been dating a boy from time to time for the past seven years. “Giorgio” is a wonderful person and will do almost anything for me. The problems are not much to offer, and speak too much. Share a lot of our private business for family and friends, especially your mother.
She will ask him several questions about me and then make sarcastic comments in return. I have spoken with him more than once about this, in vain. Giorgio knows that I don’t want it, but I can’t get rid of him. Any advice that can give me would be much appreciated. – Seven years old in Georgia
Estimated seven -year -old items: If he is aware of the sarcastic comments that Giorgio’s mother has been doing, it must be due to the fact that Giorgio has transmitted them. (Doesn’t you have a brain at all?) Your attitude about you would erode your relationship with your child, even if you choose to continue it.
I don’t know why you can’t get rid of Giorgio, but try this: say that you don’t want to see it anymore and you don’t want to be friends anymore. Unless you do, the message will not be transmitted. If he persists, warn that if you do not leave, you will submit a police report because at that time what you are doing will be considered stalking. Then do it, if necessary.
Dear Abby: My husband retired three weeks ago, and he has been driving me since then. I am a night owl, and he knows him since we met 10 years ago. Today, he told me that he would play golf with an old friend tomorrow at 8:30 am to a field at 45 minutes and needed to get up at 6 am
I asked him if he could be very calm in the morning and use the visits to shower so that he would not wake me up an hour before. Hustically put his towel and shampoo in the guest shower, he turned back to his easy chair and dropped strongly. When I asked him what was wrong, he said he was upset because he could not take his shower in our normal bath. I said Yo I was annoying that I was missing an hour to sleep before working for an eight -hour day. He said: “I’m sorry, you’re upset, but I’m retired and things are changing!”
I never waited for him to get up before in retirement. Are you asking too much that my routine and my sleep schedule are not interrupted while Am Are you still working? After that, everything goes, but I still need the structure. – Thrown in Massachusetts
Dear launched: I will assume that your marriage has been happy so far, and that it generally implies commitment. I don’t think his request for a guest room to be given so he can remain in his sleep schedule was asking too much. I wonder why I would say “things are changing” unilaterally. Could the unquestionable authority miss his previous work? I ask about the tone in which he said what he did. If you decide to punish you for asking you to give yourself in the guest room in the morning when you have a golf game, suggest that you will sleep in the guest room at those nights.
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