Here comes the hostile ghost.
Unfortunately in the world of citations today, being ghost, which is in some quotes with someone and suddenly that person disappears without any explanation, is nothing new.
Fortunately, for all the hopeful single people, Karli Kucko, a sexual and relationship therapist, told Daily Mail the main reason why so many people are ghost or ghost for a possible suitor.
If you have slipped at least once in an appointment application, you are familiar with the endless options of eligible daters. However, that is exactly what is causing people to give silent treatment to someone after realizing that they no longer like.
Not all appointments will be a homer or a sign that the wedding bells are just around the corner. However, instead of communicating that to someone, people would prefer to disappear.
“Ghost to someone tonight, slide someone new tomorrow,” Kucko said.
Nobody likes confrontation and digital appointments have made it easier for people to stop responding to a person’s calls or text messages when they lose interest, hoping that they get the track.
“Instead of communicating and connecting when differences arise, people often choose to finish things and move on,” explained the relationship expert.
While the ghost is often frowned upon, Kuoko explained that there is a moment and a place to stop seeing or responding to someone.
“The ghost to avoid conflicts can be a way of conserving energy, especially with strangers who are not demonstrating respectful communication,” Kucko said.
Keep in mind that there is a difference and before eliminating the number of that person from your phone: the expert wants him to discover his intentions of ghosts.
“To differentiate between the two, I encourage reflection: am I choosing not to answer because I am honoring my values, or am I avoiding vulnerability because it is uncomfortable?” She said.
Rejecting someone or being rejected is never easy, and understandably most people would do anything to avoid it.
However, as the saying usually says, honesty is the best policy. “While this rejection can be difficult to swallow, I promote transparency on avoidance,” Kuoko explained.
A Numberbran survey revealed that 75% of single people have been ghosts, and if they are trying not to be a statistic, they are attentive to some signs that could indicate to Casper that the not so friendly ghost addresses their way.
A revealing sign is when your appointment is suddenly vague about plans. If a text message that reads “I will check my calendar” or “I will let you know when it is free”, it appears on your phone: better your expectations of that person.
Another sign is when words do not match the actions of a person. Anyone can throw a compliment, or even worse, love you with all the positive words of affirmation you yearn. But, if the actions of the person do not align with what they say: run to the hills.
Two other signs that could be ghosts is if they take time to respond to their texts, showing a lack of interest. And if they cancel the last minute in their plans with lame excuses, the ghost could be just around the corner.
